Capps has long auburn hair and a twiggy frame festooned with tattoos. A single mom and artist who pays the rent by waiting tables, she penned the aforementioned e-mail that sent Unreal a-cougarin'. Two nights before our arrival at her pad, she brought home a year-old and her nosy neighbor, who was sitting outside, asked, "Is that your son?
Capps, 43, doesn't recall ever dating a man her age. Her husband, from whom she separated in , was twelve years her junior.
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Her most recent boyfriend was They split in March. He was pulling stupid shit like driving drunk, she says. Besides, he wanted kids. Capps was working one night not long after the breakup when she heard some male colleagues laughing about a couple of "cougars. Nobody's getting hurt in these relationships — and shhhh , nobody's gonna tell. Working in bars and restaurants, Capps had often bagged her prey across the table. But over the next two months, she tracked the personal ads on craigslist.
On May 20, a little after midnight, Capps placed her first ad, entitled "Cougar looking for young stud.
The first reply, which popped in mere minutes later, came from a "tall skinny white 33 year old church pastor, brown hair, green eyes, witty, godly and well hung Capps didn't reply. She's Wiccan. Instead, she watched as a dozen more e-mails poured in.
Respondents ranged in age from 18 to Many sent photos of themselves. She struck up some e-mail relationships, went on several dates and summoned one fellow, 26, to her home. Dissatisfied by their initial tryst — he was bossy in the sack — Capps rebuffed his subsequent and graphic e-come-ons. I think anyone who looks down their nose at it feels a tinge of jealousy. Knowing the cougar's habits is imperative for a successful safari. As Unreal learned through many an outing this past month, they don't go out after tornado warnings or during thunderstorms.
On the bar scene, they run in packs and tend to hibernate Saturday through Tuesday. Brio, in Frontenac, is rumored to be a sure bet Wednesday through Friday, though pedigree prevails. Harry's, downtown, is hit-and-miss. Beware the broads circle-dancing, purses stacked on the pavement. It may scream Cougar Central, but it's likely to be an old ladies' night out. Strip malls in Chesterfield dominate on Wednesday nights, and once a month cougars congregate at Parties in the Park in Clayton, then around Cardwell's afterward. In the city the party begins at Failoni's on Manchester Avenue at about 6 p.
Tip: Cougars looooove live music. We found them there recently in white jorts and jean dresses, wearing spiked heels and mucho mousse, drinking cherry bombs and blowjob shots. Louis Magazine and Alive. Unreal is chaperoned by Cindy Capps and a woman named Sherry, who'd seen an online ad Capps placed in search of fellow cougars. I'm not here to get laid, but I am curious. I guess it's nice to know that I've got other options than a year-old. The pickings are slim by the time we arrive at nine, so we move eastward down Manchester to yet another known haunt, JackSons'.
Firefighters and bikers congregate outside. A young stud grabs Capps' buttocks as she walks in.
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At JackSons' on this night, the prowling cougar can find everything from a metrosexual plastic surgeon to a meaty demolition man. The dance floor is a sweaty mess of long hair and miniskirts that seem to outnumber the young lads two to one. It's far too loud for conversation, but you can watch the cougars and their prey sign their ages to each other. Kind of like preschoolers learning to count. Only less cute. Unreal spots a face we recognize at the bar: a young stud, no more than 26, who was making the rounds back at Failoni's.
Ah, if we could only pick his cougar-centric brain for a minute.
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Instead, it is one long hour, watching him cup his cougar's tail as he nuzzles his head in her neckline. Having found the bar scene hard to, um, penetrate, Unreal posts online ads of our own. The 21 cougs and coug-lovers who reply have more than a few stories to share. Elliott is as good as any to begin with. That's not his real name.
He says he's 47, with a practice based at St. Anthony's Medical Center.
He dates women up to age 65 and prefers the ones who speak the King's English. These he finds at art museums, bookstores and charity functions. Elliott's last fling involved a year-old widow of a fellow doc. It began with a pool "party" at her house, he says, where he was the only guest. We continued to the bedroom, where she was a tigress. A year-old married man from Madison, Wisconsin, T.
We converse for a good 45 minutes before he's finally able to admit why he likes having an older woman on the side: "Blowjobs. My wife does not like giving them. In fact, she is dead set against them. I love her for who she is, but it sucks. Pun intended. There's the year-old Marine who lost his virginity 10 years ago to his year-old married neighbor, the year-old who stalks the wives of outstate hunters the first weekend of deer season, the year-old who offers to "trade" himself in exchange for granting an interview.
And let's not leave out year-old Cordell Calhoun, an electrician who exclusively hounds cougars over Calhoun finds fertile territory early mornings at the grocery store — specifically in the produce section. Calhoun likes to open with a flirty line. Like: "Sure looks like you'll be making something tasty tonight! She used to make everything from scratch. You ever need to fill a seat at the table, you just call me and I'll come running. Calhoun appreciates the fact that your typical cougar has no use for postcoital cuddling; they're more likely to offer a snack or a glass of iced tea.
Unreal's favorite male interviewee may have been Anthony Moore, a year-old divorced computer programmer. I draw the line at butt-love. The cougars, mind you, are just as adventurous as the prey they stalk. Take DeeAnne Grant, 38, a self-described thick chick, divorced with three kids. She tells Unreal she dated a year-old for two years intermittently while diddling other young studs.
One of the more memorable occasions transpired when an eighteen-year-old and a nineteen-year-old helped her move.